Pelvic Pain Makes Intimacy Difficult

By Dr. Courtney Cheng, D.O., M.S.H.S.

What is dyspareunia? Pain with intercourse (dyspareunia) is a common concern among young childbearing-aged women.  About 15-20% of US women in reproductive age complain about having pain during vaginal penetration.  The cause of this pain can be anatomical, neurological, or psychological in nature.  A health care professional can help to differentiate the cause of this problem and provide management for resolution of the pain.  If not properly managed by a physician, the pain can worsen, resulting in a negative attitude to sexual intimacy, more problems with sexual function, decreased happiness and relationship discord.

Understanding the anatomy and physiology can help guide common treatable causes of pain with intercourse.  By understanding the cause, a holistic approach can be applied that address the cause and rather than suppressing the symptoms.  The natural, non-drug therapies described do not replace the role of a qualified medical professional.  If you try one of the recommendations with worsening of your condition, you should cease immediately and consult a health care professional.

CONNECT WITH YOUR BODY

What causes dyspareunia?  Dyspareunia can be classified by the location of the pain as insertional, pain with vaginal entry, or deep, which is associated with deep thrusting.  Many women may experience both insertional and deep dyspareunia. Insertional dyspareunia is associated with problems with the outer layers of the vaginal wall.  In contrast, deep dyspareunia is more associated with problems of the uterus inside. 

Dyspareunia can also be classified by the onset of the pain.  Young child-bearing female with pain is commonly associated with poor lubrication and a negative attitude toward sexuality.  Postpartum dyspareunia is more commonly associated with vaginal trauma during the course of spontaneous vaginal deliveries.  However, women with cesarean deliveries are also reporting pelvic pain.

HARMONIZE WITH YOUR SEXUALITY

How can dyspareunia be treated?  Treatment modalities for dyspareunia are dependent on the underlying cause. If you are having pain upon vaginal entry, try using external lubrication, with concurrent psychological counseling. Try new positions and determine whether the pain is only with certain positions.  Communicate with your partner what is pleasurable to each other. Deep dyspareunia may have surgical indications, and may include ablation of endometriosis, lysis of adhesions, or restoration of the normal anatomy.

INTEGRATE OSTEOPATHY

Recently, I have been seeing many patients with dyspareunia.  Each case was due to a different cause and thus had to be dealt with differently.  In the first case, the patient had endometriosis causing her pain with deep penetration.  Instead of being surgically treated, she had regular osteopathic treatments to alleviate the pain until she unexpectedly became pregnant.  The pregnancy and natural change in her cycle resulted in improvement of her symptoms. 

She referred a friend who had pain with intercourse following the birth of her first child via Cesarean section.   During her osteopathic treatment, myofascial unwind of the fascia revealed the emotional trauma that she underwent during the surgery in which she described being forcibly lifted off the surgical table as her child was pried out of her.  Her husband witness to the trauma has been cautious and anxious about further hurting her.  Removing the trauma and the fear that went with it allowed this couple to resume intimacy in a renewed way.  

In another case, dyspareunia began after an individual had her uterus removed prophylactically after she was diagnosed with breast cancer.  The early penetration pain was not their prior to the surgery and she is in a happy monogamous relationship with her husband who has been supportive throughout. In this situation, despite proper lubrication, the thin friable nature of the vaginal tissue caused her pain and corresponded with her history of hysterectomy.  In this situation, she was referred to a gynecology oncologist who specializes in these special circumstances since hormone replacement may increase her chances of developing further cancers.   

If you are unable to find relief from the holistic and natural approach, you can discuss with your health care provider options of biofeedback, physical therapy and medical management.  Antidepressants and hormone replacement therapy have both been found to be effective when used appropriately. 

New Beginnings

By Dr. Courtney Cheng, D.O., M.S.H.S.


Many people find themselves wanting to make a healthy change in their life but never following through. There are often many reasons that can prevent making a healthy lifestyle change. Some of the common excuses I hear for not committing to a healthier lifestyle are fear of failure, financial restrictions, and limited resources or time.  The first step in making a healthy lifestyle change is to consult a heath care professional for the appropriate action measures.  A health care professional can examine your current medical conditions and discuss appropriate steps to take for success in healthy lifestyle changes.  
This article looks at some of the common reasons for not committing to healthy changes and the tips I have used to achieve a healthier balance in my own life.  These tips do not replace the role of a qualified professional.  If you are making a change in your life and experience problems, you should cease immediately and consult a professional.  As a health care professional, my approach is to discover the cause of the problem and provide healthy measures to address the problem.

CONNECT WITH PROFESSIONALS

As a new small business, I sought free advise from the Small Business Development Center hosted by Santa Monica College.  Although professionally run, I soon realized that making a change often requires a financial investment.  During this process, I hired a practice manager, accountant and attorney to advise me on what would be in my best interest for setting up the practice.  Through the help of my business accountant Brian Bedord, CPA, business attorney, Joey Lynch, and practice manager, I was given doable tasks to do without being overwhelmed while starting my practice.  

HARMONIZE WITH YOUR VALUES

In the past month, my healthy lifestyle change involved going from being an employee to being self-employed.  This change in my career was over a year in the making.  Preventing me from change was the comfort of financial security and fear of failure.  I was afraid of what change might bring.  Major professional events caused me to realize the importance of releasing my comfort zone.  To help with the transition, I received help from professionals to provide direction in achieving my goal.  

When I was starting my practice, the first person that I went to for advise was my husband.  I figured that since he is self-employed and successful that he would know how to help me.  I immediately fell into the same problem that I advise patients in my practice not to do.  People will often go to their spouses or friends for free advise on complicated difficult issues.  Boundaries are important for successful relationships.  Going to a friend for health advise is like going to an auto mechanic instead of a cardiologist after a heart attack.  Both may be good at fixing things but it is crucial to connect with the appropriate professional to assist in your particular problem.

When I address the problems of my patients, it is important for me to understand their values in life.  Meaningful change is likely not sustainable if the change is not in line with core values. Chronic low back pain is a common problem I treat resulting from lifestyle habits.  Most physicians would provide generic recommendations to heat or ice the area, stretch and avoid prolonged sittings.  Some of the better physicians will inquire about significant changes that may be contributing to worsening of the pain.  In a recent incident, the low back pain patient presented in an avid horse back rider who recently started training a rescue horse.  The better physician will discuss tips specific to riders such as importance of saddle and posture while riding.  The rare few will attempt to discover what is preventing the body from staying healthy and pain-free. I realized that she had a strain pattern into her right shoulder and compression of her right hip.  Further inquiry resulted in further discovery that while riding she has to counterbalance her horse who suffers from an injured right hoof recently and is left-hand dominant.  That afternoon I visited her rescue horse, I discovered and treated her horse's swollen left hock (ankle) and advised that she have the horse treated for the injured right hoof which is causing the horse to strain the opposite hock (ankle).  By addressing the imbalances of the horse, the rider should be able to improve her riding posture and thus decrease her risk of further back complications. At (X) CHi, our health care professionals make sure to address the cause of the problem and not only the symptoms.

INTEGRATE CHANGE INTO LIFESTYLE

Recently my husband and I had a meeting with Scott Perring, CFP who discussed Value-Based Financial Planning.  During our meeting, we were asked to create a hierarchy of values that inspired us.  If you don't have a direction of where you want to go, you can not expect to know how to get there.  Understanding your core values helps to ensure that you continue to stay on task towards the goal.  Make sure to see a health care professional to determine the ways to make a positive change in you.

Grilled Salmon on a Bed of Kale Salad

Grilled Salmon on a Bed of Kale Salad

Whether you are observing fish on fridays or just love another excuse to eat fish, this recipe was contributed by Pierre Suvagette of Clean Palate Consulting.  This simple and delicious recipe is a great source of Omega 3 fatty acids and antioxidants that lower the risk of heart disease. 


A single serving contains less than 500 calories with only 7 grams of carbohydrates and 28.87 grams of fat.  It is packed with protein at 30.19 grams.


Ingredients
5 oz of Salmon filet, grilled
Baby Kale, chopped
Optional: almonds, dried cranberry, chopped onions, etc.
Lemon Dressing
1 tsp of Dijon mustard 
1 tsp of lemon juice
1 tbsp of extra virgin olive oil
1 clove of fresh garlic, minced
Salt & pepper to taste

Mix the chopped baby Kale and optional items with the lemon dressing.  Top with the grilled salmon and serve.